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How to Meditate Deeply



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How to Meditate Deeply       

Four Parts:
- Finding Quiet Space
- Practicing Meditation
- Maintaining Focus
- Ending Meditation

Meditation can be strangely frustrating. Why is this practice that's supposed to calm and steady your nerves and relieve your stress filling you with confusion? What is there to meditate upon? By building your practice with good sitting techniques and right-mindedness, you can stop worrying about "doing it right" and start meditating deeply.

Finding Quiet Space

    Choose a space in your house that is quiet. Picking a room with a door, away from areas with children or traffic would be best.
    Find a straight-backed chair or floor cushion. The ideal seat is not so comfortable that you can fall asleep, but adequately comfortable to sit in for at least 20 or 30 minutes.
    Light the space with soft natural light. Low lighting can help to relax the mind, so consider candles or lamps, instead of fluorescent lights.
    Determine a time to meditate that allows you to be unconnected to other activities. Consider a time early in the morning or in the evening, when children are asleep and the phone is unlikely to ring.

Practicing Meditation

    Sit on your cushion or chair. Find a comfortable position where you can stay without moving for 20 or more minutes.
        Stretch your back before you begin, if you have been sitting all day. Twisting from the waist to the left and right in a seated position or doing yoga cat/cow and child's poses can release tension so that it is easier to focus on the meditation.
        Relax your shoulders. Lift them up to your ears as you breathe in, then drop them back down. Keep your back very straight. Place your hands in your lap. Zazen meditation suggests that you place your left hand in your right hand, palms up and place your left thumb on top of your right thumb, as if you were cradling an egg. This should make a circle, suggesting infinity and also the unconscious--your non-dominant side being allowed to take over.
    Close your eyes or focus them on a blank wall. Some meditators find it difficult to mediate with their eyes open, while some struggle to meditate with their eyes closed because drowsiness becomes too much of a problem.
        Consider actively focusing on "nothing." Look not at the blank wall, but through the wall. Blink when you need to blink.
    Focus on your breath. Most meditation is not more complicated than sitting quietly and breathing, when you get right down to it. Within that simplicity, however, is endless complexity. Begin counting down from 10. You can focus on the counting to get your mind to start calming. If you have more time and this practice is helpful, consider counting down from 50 or 100.
        Breathe in deeply for a count of 8 seconds, hold the breath for 2 to 4 seconds, and breathe out over a count of 8 seconds. Repeat this breathing pattern for 2 minutes.
        Feel the breath coming into your body and going out of your body. Imagine the oxygen filling your body and coursing through your blood. Feel the oxygen come into all the parts of your body, and continue focusing on your breath.

Maintaining Focus

    Watch your thoughts. One of the most difficult things about meditation when you're just getting started is the issue of what to do. You're sitting there, breathing in and out...then what? Eventually, as you practice meditation, you'll notice the thoughts that come and go from your mind. You might be focused on picking your kids up, what you're going to have for dinner, or some lingering stresses from your workday. Rather than identifying with these thoughts and allowing them to inhabit you, imagine them as fish swimming in a pond. Watch them move through your mind and out of your mind.
        Doing this distances you from your ego, allowing you to become more distanced from the "I" that thinks. Allow your thoughts to flow through your mind, continuing to focus on your breath, observe them, and let them go.
    Don't struggle. Awareness may feel more like an energy than a thought, and it's very difficult to describe or to experience. This is why meditation is referred to as a practice, and why zazen essentially translates to "just sitting." What do meditation masters and zen monks do? Just sitting.
        Recognize as you drift into thoughts about your surroundings or your life, but don't try to pull your mind along back to a pre-conceived version of "awareness" you might have. As you begin meditating, this will happen frequently and may be quite frustrating.
    Be aware of the camera pulling backward. In an old Monty Python sketch, two men are lost in the desert. They start crawling as the buzzards start circling in. Desperate for water, one of them looks straight into the camera and says, "Wait a bit!" At this point, the camera pans back to reveal an entire camera crew with a catered lunch laid out for everyone. The men eat and before too long, all the crew is wandering through the desert, desperate for water, until one of them says, "Wait a bit!" and the whole process is repeated.
        Our mind can work like this. As you're watching your thoughts, you may think: "But wait. Who is watching the thoughts?" This can get into a frustrating struggle with your mind, common to "just sitting." Focus on your breath. This too, watch happen, and let it pass.
    Embrace yourself. By detaching from the thoughts as you watch them, by allowing your mind to happen, by allowing your body to happen, and your breath to simply happen, you're allowing your true nature to exist without controlling it yourself. You're detaching yourself from your ego and learning to embrace your true nature and love yourself.

Ending Meditation

    Pull yourself back to your physical body. Return to awareness of the parts of your body that are touching the ground or chair.
    Try to spend 2 minutes being appreciative of the time, silence and peace. A positive thought process can boost your mood for the day.
    Schedule a daily meditation time. Stick to it. The process will get easier the more often you perform it.

Community Q&A

    How can I concentrate if my mind is full of disturbances?

    Keep practicing. Concentration takes time and effort if you aren't already good at it. Just constantly notice when your mind wanders and guide it back to your focus. With time you should get better.

    What do I do with my hands? Like, how do I position them?

    Position them in whatever way is comfortable. You want your body to be relaxed enough that your mind can focus where you want it to.

    How do I block out distractions?

    Close your eyes and focus. If you need to plug your ears, wax should do the job, but that can be dangerous. You can use ear muffs, earphones that don't play music, or ear plugs.

Things You'll Need
    Quiet space
    Chair/floor cushion

Sources and Citations



Downloads (PDF) :
- 7  Hacks For A Deeper Meditation
- Scientific Benefits of Meditation  – 76  things you might be missing out
- Questions and Answers about Meditation


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