Sex or love making should start by playing with each other and HAVE FUN !!

[PiJo]

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Feeling happy is a combination of little pleasures : eat well, sleep well, good relationship with others, rewarding job, lovely family, ... and a good sexual relationship with your partner is one of them.

Making love or having sex is not taught at school but you learn it with practice, by speaking with close friends or family or by reading internet posts like this one.

First of all, sex must start with fun between partners, by playing together, by laughing about the other's anatomy or "curiosities", allowing you to demystify the sexual organs and playing with other's sensitive points (lips, breasts, belly, buttocks, ears, toes, fingers, ... most of all the body in fact) . It must start like a game !!
Sex is not only intercourse, it is in all parts of this game. And usually, gaming must be funny !!

In my (long) life I saw happy couples, sometimes friends, who told me sex MUST BE FUN(NY). How right they were !!!
As a christian (non-pratiquant) I believed sex (or love) is something serious, a gift from God for pleasure or procreation, and I realized that to be a "sex machine" or a "love maker" was just an empty bag. Something was missing.
When I found a partner who loved to play and have fun before making love, my vision and performances with sex changed completly and for muuuuuch better !!!!

There is nothing to be serious when having sexual intercourse. Everybody can do it, more or less.
If sex (or love) becomes boring between partners, one of them will start to look somewhere else in quest of FUN.
Trust me, FUN IS THE KEY for "a good and happy sex life", more than to reach climax itself !!